Notes
1.	This version is intended for Tops & Switches with their Top hat on
2.	? Don't understand this item.
3.	No under Willingness is a hard limit, subject to any notes
4.	Safewords
a.	Yellow – Keep going, but change spots or lesson intensity temporarily
b.	Red – Stop scene immediately and untie/release
5.	Flogging is defined as mild to moderate (& occasionally severe) with multi-tailed implements
6.	Whipping is defined as severe usually with a single-tail or very wicked implement
7.	Novices may change the Experience column heading to: Blank = No

	Experience
Blank = Yes	Willingness
Blank = Willing	Training Desired
Blank = No	Notes & Nuances	
Anal Sex-cock 					
Anal Sex-dildo/butt plug 					
Anal plug (public, under clothes) 					
Animal play (sex with animals)					
Arm & leg sleeves (arm binders) 					
Aromas 					
Auctioned for charity 					
Anilingus/rimming (oral/anal play)					
Beating (soft)					
Beating (hard)					
Blindfolds					
Biting					
Breast/chest bondage					
Blood play (rose canes, etc.)					
Boot worship					
Bondage (light)					
Bondage (heavy)					
Bondage (multi-day)					
Bondage (public, under clothing)					
Branding (cell popping method)					
Branding (violet wand)					
Branding (heated metal method)					
Breast flogging					
Breath play (choking, hanging, bagging, etc.)							
Cages 					
Caning					
Catheterisation					
Cattle prod (electrical toy)					
Cells/Closets 					
Chains					
Chamber-pot use					
Chastity belts					
Chauffeuring					
Clamps (clothespins, etc.)					
Cock worship					
Cock & Ball Torture (male bottoms)					
Collars (worn in private)					
Collars (worn in public)					
Competitions (between Subs)					
Corsets (wearing casually)					
Corsets (trained waist reduction)					
Cuffs (leather)					
Cuffs (metal)					
Cupping (Chinese medicine)					
Cutting (scalpel – temporary body modification)					
Dilation (usually of ass via dildos)					
Dildos					
Double penetration (vagina & ass)					
Enemas (for cleansing)					
Enemas (retention/punishment)					
“Enforced” chastity					
Erotic dance (for audience or private)					
Exercise (“Forced”/required)					
Exhibitionism (friends)					
Exhibitionism (strangers)					
Eye contact restrictions					
Face slapping					
Fantasy abandonment					
Fear play (based on things that the bottom fears)					
Fisting (anal)					
Fisting (vaginal)					
Flame/Fire play					
Flogging – Breasts							
Flogging – Pussy							
Flogging – Other areas (shoulders, ass)					
Following orders – having bottoms/subs perform requests willingly					
Foot worship					
“Forced” dressing					
“Forced” eating					
“Forced” homosexuality					
“Forced” heterosexuality					
“Forced” lactation					
“Forced” masturbation					
“Forced” nudity (private)					
“Forced” nudity (around others)					
“Forced” servitude					
“Forced” smoking					
Full head hoods					
Gags (cloth)					
Gags (inflatable)					
Gags (phallic)					
Gags (rubber)					
Gags (tape)					
Gas masks					
Genital sensation play					
Genital sex					
Genital torture (intense sensation)					
Given away to another Dom (temp)					
Given away to another Dom (perm)					
Golden showers (urine over body)					
Golden showers (drinking of urine)					
Gun play					
Hairbrush spankings					
Hair pulling					
Hand jobs (giving)					
Hand jobs (receiving)					
Harems (serving w/other subs)					
Harnessing (leather)					
Harnessing (rope)					
Having food chosen for bottom					
Having clothing chosen for bottom					
Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus)					
Head (rcv fellatio/cunnilingus)					
High heel wearing					
High heel worship					
Homage with tongue (non-sexual)					
Hoods					
Hot oils (on genitals)					
Housework (doing)					
Humiliation (private)					
Humiliation (public)					
Hypnotism					
Ice cubes					
Immobilization					
Including others in scenes (assistants, observers, co-topping, multiple bottoms)					
Initiation rites					
Injections (saline in breasts)					
Injections (saline in labia)					
Injections (saline in ball sack - males)					
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage					
Kneeling					
Knife play					
Latex – liquid brushed onto body					
Latex – body suits & hoods					
Leather clothing					
Leather restraints					
Lectures for misbehaviour					
Licking (non-sexual)					
Lingerie 					
Manacles & Irons					
Manicures (receiving)					
Massage (giving)					
Massage (receiving)					
Mouth bits					
Mummification (e.g. duct tape, Saran/ pallet wrapping)					
Name change (for scene)					
Name change (legal, permanent)					
Nipple clamps					
Nipple play/"torture"					
Nipple weights					
Orgasm denial					
Orgasm control					
Outdoor scenes					
Outdoor sex					
Pain (severe)					
Pain (moderate)					
Pain (mild)					
Persona training (taking on a given personality for a scene, e.g. brat)					
Personality modification (Real Life)					
Phone sex (serving Dom)					
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends)					
Phone sex (commercial provider)					
Photography – to record a scene					
Photography – planned erotic photo shoots					
Piercing (temp. syringe needles)					
Piercing (temp. acupuncture needles)					
Piercing (permanent)					
Plastic surgery					
Prostitution (public pretence)					
Prostitution (actual)					
Pony play					
Public exposure					
Punishment Scene					
Pussy worship					
Riding crops					
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.)					
Rituals					
Restrictive rules on behaviour					
Rope body harness					
Rubber/latex clothing					
Scat (brown showers)					
Scarification					
Scratching - getting					
Scratching - giving					
Sensation play (hot, cold, rough, smooth, etc.)					
Sensory deprivation					
Serving					
Serving as art					
Serving as ashtray					
Serving as furniture					
Serving as a maid					
Serving as toilet (urine)					
Serving as toilet (feces)					
Serving as waitress/waiter/hostess					
Serving orally (sexual)					
Serving other doms (supervised)					
Serving other doms (unsupervised)					
Sexual deprivation (short term)					
Sexual deprivation (long term)					
Shaving (body hair)					
Shaving (head hair)					
Skinny-dipping					
Sleep deprivation					
Sleep sacks					
Slutty clothing (private)					
Slutty clothing (public)					
Spandex clothing					
Spanking					
Speech restrictions (when, what)					
Speculums (Anal)					
Speculums (vaginal)					
Spitting					
Spreader bars					
Standing in corner					
Stocks					
Straight jackets					
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on)					
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by)					
Strap-on-dildos (wearing)					
Strapping (full body beating)					
Suspension (upright)					
Suspension (inverted)					
Suspension (horizontal)					
Supplying new partners for Dom					
Suturing					
Swallowing feces					
Swallowing semen					
Swallowing urine					
Swapping (with one other couple)					
Swinging (multiple couples)					
Tampon Training (in ass)					
Tattooing					
Teasing					
TENS Unit (electrical toy)					
Thumb cuffs (metal)					
Tickling					
Triple penetration					
Urethral Sounds (metal rods)					
Uniforms					
Vacuum bed					
Vaginal dildo					
Verbal humiliation					
Vibrator on genitals					
Violet Wand (electrical toy)					
Voyeurism (watching others)					
Voyeurism (your bottom w/others)					
Video (watching others)					
Video (recordings of bottom)					
Water torture					
Wax - Hot (e.g. candles)					
Wax – Paraffin for manicures/pedicures					
Waxing (hair removal, e.g. Brazilians)					
Wearing symbolic jewellery					
Weight gain (“Forced”)					
Weight loss (“Forced”)					
Whipping - Breasts							
Whipping - Pussy							
Whipping – Other areas (shoulders, ass)					
Wooden paddles					
Wrestling					

Role Play
	Experience
Blank = Yes	Willingness
Blank = Willing	Notes & Nuances	
Parent/Child (Age play) 				
Parent/Infant (in diapers – infantilism)				
Owner/Pet (puppy, kitten, etc.)				
Pony play				
Teacher/Student				
Officer/Suspect				
Interrogator/Suspect				
Priest/Confessor				
Sergeant/Recruit				
Prison Guard/Prisoner				
Customer/Prostitute				
Doctor/Patient				
Kidnapper/Victim				
Rapist/Victim				
Pirate/Passenger				
Sultan/Harem girl				
Others you fantasize about